Sunday, May 8, 2016
Mother's Day
Mother's Day a day that you have to tell how grateful you are to be a mom even if it's a crapful day and your really not happy to be a mother... Yup that's my day. Starting with the night before I get home around 1230 and kids are still awake not cool, then on the morning hubbs tried to make me breakfast in bed (it's the thought right ) but burnt the bacon so then asked me to come make it. Church was canceled due to a gas leak, yeah!! And then an hour or so later it was back on.. Disappointment. I know it's a crappy attitude but it's true. I desperately wanted to play hookie but it didn't happen... Kids were horrible at church I lost my cabinet key so had to leave them open (not cool) had some visitors waiting for us at our house it was a crazy hectic day and I could not wait until bed time when the house was silent! Happy Mother's Day-
Saturday, February 22, 2014
MIL drama
oh crap, I didin't really want to say crap, i wanted to say something else, but i will keep it a bit clean. If you want to help someone pack, then maybe you should do what they have asked you to. INstead of getting jealous of them packing with someone. Finish your own job so they don't have to go finish it for you... YEa both times I have had to redo, or even just finish the stupid project i asked her to pack. What the heck..it is so annoying. I can't handle her little remarks, I just don't even talk about it. But yet she has to mention us moving to everyone we see and go to but she hates to talk about it. She just wants peoples pitty because she is being left.. well she really is not, she just wont accept the fact that she has to get to know her other son better and enjoy time with him. OH but she tells everyone and there dog, "She knows" (se being me) i will come visit every 6 weeks, well i sure hope we are busy and she can't come every 6 six. that would be heck. LIke my sister in law said, it won't be a sad day when she leaves North Dakota from helping us move.. I can not wait to be out of the basment and away from certain people 24/7 . I can finally raise my kids how I want. I may seem a bit more irritated, or annoyed, a lot to do with stress, and wanting things done my way, a pregnancy, and wow I just dont know, probably having a light of being out of the basement and away from family. THis next week can't go by fast enough..
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
why
Seriously why can't my mother in law just butt out...
We have decided to move to North Dakota! The main reason, so we can all be together as our family.. NOT with the in-laws.. MIL to be exact.. oh but she thinks she can just get in her car and come visit us every six weeks... I know I shouldn't worry about it, but it just irritates me, and she thinks she has to sale her dog because I might not let it in the house.. seriously oh HECK, come on women, grow up, why would you even think of bringing your dog on 14 hr road trip, seriously you know of people that will watch your dog, don't ask for a pitty party by saying "oh i may just have to sale her" good gravy. I am so excited about moving to North Dakota to get away from HER, out of HER basement we have been living in for 5 years.. yea not my cup of tea.. and I could go on an on about what is irritating me so bad, because I want out, and she won't leave me ALONE... how can be my kids MOM and raise them how i want to with her always there...
If she really comes and visits me every 6 weeks I really hope that I can tell her no.. but like right now I am to nice, and she thinks that I have pitty for her because my kids have been in her life, one of them her house, since the day they were born... and I do think that the fact that there is an end in sight, not soon enough, that we will be out, that everything is irritating me MUCH MUCH more., and yes it does all work out in the end, even if I fake that I am ok with it, but right now I am NOT.
We have decided to move to North Dakota! The main reason, so we can all be together as our family.. NOT with the in-laws.. MIL to be exact.. oh but she thinks she can just get in her car and come visit us every six weeks... I know I shouldn't worry about it, but it just irritates me, and she thinks she has to sale her dog because I might not let it in the house.. seriously oh HECK, come on women, grow up, why would you even think of bringing your dog on 14 hr road trip, seriously you know of people that will watch your dog, don't ask for a pitty party by saying "oh i may just have to sale her" good gravy. I am so excited about moving to North Dakota to get away from HER, out of HER basement we have been living in for 5 years.. yea not my cup of tea.. and I could go on an on about what is irritating me so bad, because I want out, and she won't leave me ALONE... how can be my kids MOM and raise them how i want to with her always there...
If she really comes and visits me every 6 weeks I really hope that I can tell her no.. but like right now I am to nice, and she thinks that I have pitty for her because my kids have been in her life, one of them her house, since the day they were born... and I do think that the fact that there is an end in sight, not soon enough, that we will be out, that everything is irritating me MUCH MUCH more., and yes it does all work out in the end, even if I fake that I am ok with it, but right now I am NOT.
Thursday, June 20, 2013
what a day
this day is like major diarrhea of the mouth.. honestly i don't know that i could say i even enjoyed 1/2 my day..put all together.. only the small amount of time that my friend showed up at the zoo, and I went out for the evening with my super fun awesome sister in law that is so awesome she has the same name as me!!
Anyways.. this morning we were headed to the zoo, trying to get ready at least, well we ended up leaving later then expected, I had to stop and mail a package, which was more money then expected and was going to longer then I would have liked it.. but we made it.. as we got there a I get a phone call talk to the person, which my MIL was trying to get a hold of at the time, she, my MIL, gets up set because that person told me what was going on, results from some test done at the hospital.. saying that she is the mother and should know first.. well my SIL did call her first but she didn't answer and she knew that I was with my MIL and would be able to tell her.. joys.. lets just say I was glad to have a friend at the zoo soon after that..
I was able to fume about this all while my SIL, with the awesome name, and I went and got pedicures and glitter toes, which who wouldn't be so happy getting barbie pink with sparkles on there toes!! and the price was AMAZING! Ended the fun with a costco run and chik-fil-a... so good!
Once I got back to our humble abode... my MIL wanted to go to walmart so I needed to grab a few things for another package i had to send and headed with her, and my kids.. Let me interfere by saying my MIL is a major worry wart.. MAJOR...so we were in the toy aisle and my baby escaped. so my MIL stands by the exit to make sure he doesn't leave, which was just into the garden area. Not looking around..which really did make me made even if she did just walk back and forth.. so she ended up walking to the front to have them call a code ADAM, which I told her not to.. but what EVER. I found him soon after that in the area she was standing.. and so we had to go to the manager tell her he was found and I was his mom even though I didn't call the code.. and blah blah,.. the manager was saying how my MIL did the right thing and so on i wasn't really listening I just said thanks and went on my way.. I was furious. because then you just get the looks from everyone while continuing to shop, and she, my MIL new I was mad, so she would make little comments about it, to which I replied, yes I am mad so just get over it.. I think it was inappropriate for her to humiliate me, she could have just helped look.. whatever, it's done and over with..
Later in the evening I find out she volunteered me to do something because she thinks I have spare time.. yeah well I don't, and even if I did, at night while my kids are asleep I would like to choose what I do during that time and NOT YOU..
So there you go all out, and I've got a head ache like I usually do after I have Diarrhea
HERE is to a better day, and closer to moving out of my basement apparment with the inlaws....
Anyways.. this morning we were headed to the zoo, trying to get ready at least, well we ended up leaving later then expected, I had to stop and mail a package, which was more money then expected and was going to longer then I would have liked it.. but we made it.. as we got there a I get a phone call talk to the person, which my MIL was trying to get a hold of at the time, she, my MIL, gets up set because that person told me what was going on, results from some test done at the hospital.. saying that she is the mother and should know first.. well my SIL did call her first but she didn't answer and she knew that I was with my MIL and would be able to tell her.. joys.. lets just say I was glad to have a friend at the zoo soon after that..
I was able to fume about this all while my SIL, with the awesome name, and I went and got pedicures and glitter toes, which who wouldn't be so happy getting barbie pink with sparkles on there toes!! and the price was AMAZING! Ended the fun with a costco run and chik-fil-a... so good!
Once I got back to our humble abode... my MIL wanted to go to walmart so I needed to grab a few things for another package i had to send and headed with her, and my kids.. Let me interfere by saying my MIL is a major worry wart.. MAJOR...so we were in the toy aisle and my baby escaped. so my MIL stands by the exit to make sure he doesn't leave, which was just into the garden area. Not looking around..which really did make me made even if she did just walk back and forth.. so she ended up walking to the front to have them call a code ADAM, which I told her not to.. but what EVER. I found him soon after that in the area she was standing.. and so we had to go to the manager tell her he was found and I was his mom even though I didn't call the code.. and blah blah,.. the manager was saying how my MIL did the right thing and so on i wasn't really listening I just said thanks and went on my way.. I was furious. because then you just get the looks from everyone while continuing to shop, and she, my MIL new I was mad, so she would make little comments about it, to which I replied, yes I am mad so just get over it.. I think it was inappropriate for her to humiliate me, she could have just helped look.. whatever, it's done and over with..
Later in the evening I find out she volunteered me to do something because she thinks I have spare time.. yeah well I don't, and even if I did, at night while my kids are asleep I would like to choose what I do during that time and NOT YOU..
So there you go all out, and I've got a head ache like I usually do after I have Diarrhea
HERE is to a better day, and closer to moving out of my basement apparment with the inlaws....
Monday, August 20, 2012
Oh joy...
it's never the best news hearing that I maybe living with my in laws for 5 more years.. at least. (they in our basement). SO even if i did get a house.. it wouldn't be my own..
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
15 hr drive
People ask me am I excited to go to North Dakota to see my husband... NO I am not excited to drive 15hrs with my inlaws sitting in between my two children no I am, I am not excited to drive to a town that is full of oil workers and hookers, nope sorry I am not excited.... especially since it's like a 2 day drive trip and we are not even going to be there for 2 days.. but oh well.. here it comes..
steal my thunder
I get really frusterated when people try to steal my thunder, or just get thunder i wanted.. For instance, make and sell things on Etsy, and I liked having my own special things I can make, and her having her own special things she can make.. but now she is making the things I make. I should not be so frusterated, but I am, and I don't like it, but there is not much I can do about it. Just keep doing what I am doing I guess..
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