why

Seriously why can't my mother in law just butt out...
              We have decided to move to North Dakota! The main reason, so we can all be together as our family.. NOT with the in-laws.. MIL to be exact.. oh but she thinks she can just get in her car and come visit us every six weeks... I know I shouldn't worry about it, but it just irritates me, and she thinks she has to sale her dog because I might not let it in the house.. seriously oh HECK, come on women, grow up, why would you even think of bringing your dog on 14 hr road trip, seriously you know of people that will watch your dog, don't ask for a pitty party by saying "oh i may just have to sale her" good gravy.   I am so excited about moving to North Dakota to get away from HER, out of HER basement we have been living in for 5 years.. yea not my cup of tea.. and I could go on an on about what is irritating me so bad, because I want out, and she won't leave me  ALONE... how can be my kids MOM and raise them how i want to with her always there...
If she really comes and visits me every 6 weeks I really hope that I can tell her no.. but like right now I am to nice, and she thinks that I have pitty for her because my kids have been in her life, one of them her house, since the day they were born... and I do think that the fact that there is an end in sight, not soon enough, that we will be out, that everything is irritating me MUCH MUCH more., and yes it does all work out in the end, even if I fake that I am ok with it, but right now I am NOT.